Have you ever stop to think about what of love you have or personal kind of love you have?
Do you only love with a condition? Is there strings attached to your love?
Or do you love unconditional? Nothing in expecting in return.
This same perception my be how view God and relate. Do you love God only for what He does or do not do? Do you love God for who He is?
If based on condition of must do/achieve it c an lead to false belief of loving. Which may get confusing cause a door for bitterness, guilt or shame to creep in to the heart and soul. If the “love” has shame or guilt feel you know it’s one sided and conditional.
Just take a moment think if you base you love as in expecting or if it truly free with no expectations?